About Me

I’m not afraid of hard conversations.

I’m afraid of what happens when we stop having them.

I’m a wife first.

Not in a small way. Not in a performative way. In a foundational way. My marriage is the core of my life. It has shaped who I am more than any job title, achievement, or platform ever could.

Jason and I have walked through seasons that strengthened us and seasons that stretched us. We’ve navigated sobriety, growth, conflict, ambition, and the quiet work of choosing each other again and again. We stopped drinking years ago and learned quickly how much of culture revolves around numbing and noise. That season forced us to look at ourselves honestly. It wasn’t clean. It wasn’t easy. But it was clarifying.

We do drink occasionally now, but it took years for Jason to get there in a healthy way. That journey changed the way we live, the way we lead, and the way we parent.

Marriage, to me, is not maintenance. It’s discipline. It’s humility. It’s laughter in bathrooms when your five-year-old points out gravity. It’s intimacy that deepens because you’ve stayed.

I’m also a mom of two.

Raising kids in a world that feels louder than it needs to be has sharpened my convictions. I want them to grow up strong, thoughtful, respectful, and steady. I don’t want them believing the only way to stand for something is to shout. I want them to understand that conviction and kindness are not opposites.

Faith anchors that for me.

I’m a Christian. I believe God created us male and female. I believe in personal responsibility. I believe hard work matters. I believe dignity matters. I believe respect and decorum still matter. And I believe you can hold firm beliefs without treating people like enemies.

That balance isn’t trendy.

But it’s steady.

Professionally, I build things.

I run Bridge Co. Marketing & Consulting, where I help businesses find clarity in how they communicate and grow. My husband and I are also building Bomb City Bike Park in Texas — a space rooted in community, discipline, and doing hard things well.

Building businesses has taught me structure. Marriage has taught me humility. Motherhood has taught me perspective. Faith has taught me surrender.

This space is where all of that collides.

I write about culture because it affects our homes.

I write about marriage because it shapes our families.

I write about faith because it steadies everything else.

I write about aging, leadership, parenting, and the tension of living convictionally in a reactive world.

I don’t live on social media. I don’t write to go viral. I write when something is worth saying.

If you value strength without screaming, clarity without cruelty, and honest conversation without performance, you’ll feel at home here.

The world is still spinning. God is still at work. -Abbie